Things that boys don't mind

Dates don’t care….

#askvicki , #boys

If you find yourself worrying about how your crush feels about you and all the things you do, then read on, you may be overthinking this.

Dates DON’T MIND…

If you text first… Honestly they are often waiting for you to make the first move. Don’t feel you have to declare your undying love for them in a first text though, you could just as easily send them a funny joke, or cute picture. This will make him feel at ease when texting you back with no fear of rejection.
If you take a perfect selfie… Yes they may love Gigi Hadid, but they also love the funny, kooky side of you. So don’t feel every selfie you take has to be super cute or sexy. Pouts are so old fashioned now anyway.
How you dress in or out of school… A pair of jeans and trainers are just as attractive as a pair of heels and a skirt. The trick is to feel comfortable in what you wear, because if you don’t, they will notice and if you’re trying to dress sexy to attract them, they may find it intimidating and a turn off too.
If you don’t like the same music/movies/football teams as them... Part of the fun when getting to know someone is learning all about new things; their likes and dislikes. Just be sure to avoid criticizing his choices if they are not the same as yours.
If you like to eat… Then eat and don't talk about your latest diet or only having a salad. After all they like you just as you are and want you to enjoy a meal out without stressing.
If you change your hair... Don’t get too upset if your crush doesn’t notice your new bangs and don’t mistake their silence for disapproval. ?Some people just aren’t that bothered about small talk and giving out compliments.
If you don’t flirt… In fact they can find too much flirting a little embarrassing and scary. So don’t be afraid to be goofy and joke around. or even laugh at yourself, it’s just as attractive and will put them at ease too.
If your parents, try to make small talk… Remember they have parents too and they will be equally as cringe worthy in their eyes. They may even be a little relieved that your family are taking the time to get to know them and involve them in conversations.
Whether you ask them out first… Most people are just happy to know that someone is interested in them. Even if the answer is no, don’t be disheartened, say ok and let them know you still want to be friends. This confidence and maturity will impress them and it may be that they are not yet ready to date anyone.

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AlligatorBrains1

I learnt a lot but the thing I learnt the most is that: Just be yourself if they don't like you for you the they don't deserve you. If your parents are teasing you about liking someone don't stress or be embarrassed - they have parents too and they are going through it.

Brb

I kinda have a crush but he is dating one of my fake friends what do I do?

To Shark Girl

I don't know if I'm honest, and I've asked out lots of ppl. You just kinda go with the flow, I guess. Give a bit of a warning on what your about to say to them, and then say what you need to say, and then after that, you say that even if the answers no, you still want to be friends. But whatever you do, DONT ACT LIKE UR DESPERATE. Leave it a few days for them to reply if you text them, or don't expect an answer straight away. This may be news to them, and they're probably your friend, so be nice to them as well. You may feel hurt, but chances are they'll just be happy that someone likes u ☺️ good luck my friend x

ToHfan101

Lol so I have a problem I don't know how to actually talk to my girlfriend. We've known eachother for 2 yrs and get on like nachos and salsa (it felt to weird saying peas in a pod lol) but I asked her out last month and she said yes. I usually talk to her like once a week before I asked her out but now I just have no clue on how to start the conversation 🥲 any advice?

shark lover

any advice on asking a girl out?

240&9

I haven't got my period yet (I'm 11) but my friend who's 10 has

To ADVICE PLEASE :)

Hi, I COMPLETELY get what u mean. I used have those crazy feelings like Allll the time. I sometime felt empty and embarrassed because I didn’t know what I was feeling. This might not be the same for you but I realised that I was biromantic (where your sexual feelings are different from your romantic ones)- basically picture kids, from dating,kissing ect. And yk wat, unless things get serious just fantasise, it will chill u put AND help u decide. x Hope this helps :)

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