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ABT245

4/23/2025 4:44:36 PM

I've just started my second period, should I tell my mum about it? The first time I told her, but I don't know if I should tell her now.

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OQS431

4/23/2025 4:42:07 PM

What is bisexual?

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QAN821

4/23/2025 4:39:13 PM

Hi Vicki, I'm feeling really worried and I don't know how to reassure myself. So my friend came round today (she lives quite far away) and we just hung out at mine to start with and then decided to go out. We walked round the block and then headed towards the town centre (about 20 mins walk) we went there, went round the shops and then started walking home. On the way home, you have to walk through a valley, we got to the bottom of the hill and noticed that there was this guy behind us (he looked middle-aged but perfectly normal) we then walked up the hill where there are some houses, we assumed he must live there and thought nothing of it but then we headed further on through a passage to my estate and he was still there, we kept walking towards home but he was still there the whole time, we then came to a road where there were lots of people getting home and he was further behind us then got closer again, we were both getting creeped out by then and at a moment when the road curved we dodged down a passageway and kept going and we'd lost him. I don't know if he was following us or not but I just feel really anxious that he followed us even though he was probably just on his way home. For context I live in a good area and nothing like this has ever happened before. I don't even know if he really followed us or if we imagined it and he just happened to be going the same way. Whatever it was I just can't shake the feeling and it's stressing me out!

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JHX104

4/23/2025 11:56:04 AM

Can you do gymnastics when you have your period

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SCF041

4/23/2025 11:35:44 AM

Why are my emotions all out of whack

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FWP622

4/22/2025 5:00:18 PM

Menstrual cup

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CYO338

4/22/2025 11:13:31 AM

How do i get my mum to buy me bras? She hasn't got me any since last august and they're really small and uncomfortable because i've grown and also because they've shrunk in the wash. She just keeps saying that they should still fit and it wasn't that long ago that i got them but it was ages ago and i can't keep wearing them? Ive just been wearing sports bras instead cause i have two that fit comfortably but i want to at least have the option of a standard tshirt bra?

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Hi, why not show your mum the marks your current bras leave you with when you wear them, and reassure her that they really are uncomfortable to wear and maybe even send over your measurements to me for a guide to your new bra size.

 

JFE740

4/21/2025 4:30:04 PM

Hey, when I have period cramps I will always take 2 ibuprofen but more often than not they never seem to have any effect when its the first day of my period (most painful day for me). If I also sit with a hot water bottle then the cramps will be reduced but this is only good if Im at home and its not hot weather. Do you have any advice on why the painkillers dont work and if I doing anything will make them more effective? Thanks x

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HYA233

4/19/2025 6:58:58 PM

Hi vicky I asked you about I line of brown discharge in my underwear I think last week.well it was very light brown and I have it for 3 days after that so it lasted for 4 days but on the 4 day you basically couldnt see it.but it wasnt wet in my underwear it was light and it wasnt filling a pad only a line about half way and I only changed it like 3 times through the night it only was like I leaked discharge of both colours but I didnt wear a pad because it didnt seem like a period.was this my first period because I was experiencing belly pain but yes please let me know and it wasnt dirt because it was abit on the toilet role from my vagina

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BII441

4/19/2025 1:18:14 AM

how much do periods hurt?

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