MEK086

3/25/2025 8:49:39 AM

I am the tallest of my friendship group but the last to get my period, we are all 14 do you think my mum should take me to the doctors, what could be wrong!! Emily-kaye

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Hi, as you have noticed size and shape have very little to do with the arrival of a first period, it's all down to genetics and I am sure if you have noticed other signs of puberty your period will not be too far away. So, please try not to worry, I too was the last of my friendship group to get a period, it doesn't mean you are less mature, it's just that it's not yet your time.

DVB402

3/25/2025 8:48:56 AM

what time of day do periods usually come at?

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A period can arrive anytime of day or night, when you are out and about or when sleeping, they are pretty unpredictable, so it's always a great idea to keep some pads or liners with you at all times. Our Becoming A Teen Starter kit is ideal.

NCJ018

3/25/2025 8:48:44 AM

can periods sometime come before other things like breasts and hair down there?

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Yes, for some girls a period arrives before any other signs of puberty have been noticed, such as breast development or underarm or pubic hair. This is why I advise many pre-teens to keep some pads or liners with them when away from home.

JYE170

3/25/2025 8:48:22 AM

vicki how many days for a period is normal, pls

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A period can last for between 2-10 days with an average of 3-5 for many.

BMI722

3/25/2025 4:52:57 AM

Hi Vicki i think I have a sti will it go away by itself thanks Evan

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Hi Evan, no I am afraid not, any sexually transmitted diseases will need to be treated, or they will continue to get worse and be very painful. Pop along to your doctor or local sexual health clinic and they will ensure you get the treatment you need.

RER615

3/24/2025 3:28:55 PM

I shave down there each week when I do under my arms but could you tell me what is a good cream to put on there after shaving down there as I put his after shave on and swore a lot as it really hurt and went very pink for ages. Laura. x

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Vaseline is good to use on the pubic area after hair removal and will stop irritation and rashes forming.

WXL414

3/24/2025 1:03:36 PM

When you have a crush or a girlfriend at your teenage level and she is not with you what will be going through your mind

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Well it's only natural to be thinking of your crush even if they are not around, however, living life to the full and enjoying the moment is important too. So keep busy, and when you do see your crush again, you will have lots to chat about.

WPN147

3/23/2025 8:27:55 PM

how can I tell if I'm going to have another growth spurt? I'm 14 and I'm pretty short but I haven't grown in ages and neither have my boobs.

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Growth spurts come when we least expect them and for some they never happen and instead there is a small but steady change in growth over time. So try not to worry at 14 you still have lots of development yet to come.

OIL801

3/22/2025 7:42:36 PM

Vicki I am so bloated right now and I am getting these little feeling like scratches in my Lower belly I had abit of a head ache and when I touched my lower belly it was sore sometimes when this happens its just gas but is this a sighn of my period also I have been getting the little scratch feelings all week

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It could be a sign of a first period, but may also be a sign of eating food too quickly, or consuming too much food in one sitting. If possible, move around a little, and sip water, better still peppermint tea will help.

PRV728

3/22/2025 5:32:01 PM

Hi I am 10 years old I am pretty sure that I am having puberty.I have moved school and you have to get changed in front of everyone but I dont want to because none of them have had puberty yet (I am in year 5) what do I do anymore?Please help help.

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I do understand how difficult it can be to change in front of others as you enter puberty. You could change discretely is this is possible or go into the toilet to change...or you could (and this would be my choice) be bold, be brave and embrace your new shape, chances are anyone who does glance over will be envious that puberty has started for you. And if anyone comments, own your puberty journey and offer to give advice if someone needs it, because chances are over the coming year they too will notice a change.