Amelia

From my stubbornes

Girly

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I love chickens

I used feel quite f@t all the time. I used to try and suck in my stomach to make myself feel skinnier bc I didn’t like how I looked. Then I kinda hit puberty (getting period + growing breasts) and obviously my body changed a lot. I moved on from feeling insecure and started to be a bit more confident. I got more athletic and now I’m part of the hockey team, running team and all sorts. I’m now very tall and quite slender (but healthy). I kinda realised that I shouldn’t worry about my body so much.

Thatcutecatlover

From the age of six I was friends with a girl, I’m gonna call her O. We’re 12 now. All was fine until after Christmas We had a day off for no particular reason, and O wanted to call but I was going out with my mum and sister. O got angry and then we went through a period of not texting for a few days, but we were still friends at school, then one day O texted asking if I was ignoring her and I said I wasn’t, that I see her at school everyday, that I don’t spend much time on my phone, and that I was doing other stuff. O got mad. O ignored me at school. She gave me dirty looks in the corridors, and mimicked me whenever I was talking in class. My parents phoned the school and O got told off. She was really angry now and telling her new friends how much she hated me. She said that she was the victim, and that I had been ignoring her and death staring her. She didn’t tell them what she said to me. We had to sit in a room together to apologise. I thought I was going to be sick. I apologised, even though I had done nothing wrong. I realised that she was unworthy of my friendship, that stupid people like O won’t get very far in life. She still does all those things to me. But I don’t care. Everyone believes me. She isn’t the victim, but neither am I. If anything it made me stronger. Bullies are sad inside, but it doesn’t right their wrongs. She’s doesn’t know what’s good for her. She doesn’t know she’s lost a valuable friend. But she should feel guilty. I’ve moved on from her, I have found people who make my life better. I suppose I should’ve realised earlier that she was a bad friend. But even if she continues to pester me, it won’t get to me. I know I am right. And I know she was wrong.

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My mum says that she didn’t have any of this when she was a kid so I feel lucky I have this. Thanks for teaching me about this.

Ari

Very helpful

MGG

Hey, i was so young just like 2 years ago but now i know a lot i am now really interested in all this about growing up!