Having a crush

How do I deal with these
feelings I have for someone?

#firstlove, #help, #puberty

Your head might be whirling with all these new feelings you have for someone. But what do you do!?

Here are some tips for getting to know someone better.

Don't look away! It may give him the wrong impression and he may think you're not interested. Boys are not mind readers, so when you see him in the corridor or classroom, smile and say “Hi”.

Ignore your friends if they don't think he's cute. It's good they don't like him too. But don't be put off. Good friends should support your choice no matter what.

Rather than asking someone on a date, why not invite a group of friends to go somewhere? This takes the pressure off it being a date and gives you a chance to get to know each other better while having a laugh with your friends too.

If you find they don’t feel the same way about you, don’t worry. Everyone is attracted to others for different reasons and it doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you, it just means you're not suited.

One last thing, no boy is worth losing a friend over, so if you find yourself attracted to your friend’s boyfriend, step away. NOW.

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marydelrey

basically in my year (im year 9) there's the CUTEST boy EVER im genuinly not even joking he looks exactly like dean from gilmore girls (but like a roadman version). Anyway a bunch of people find him unattractive for some reason but i dont get that and last year i made my move to try shoot my shot yk and yh he said i was really ugly and he refused to talk and get to know eachother and i cant look him in the eyes anymore and he made me sooooo insecure abt everything that i ended up with an ed over summer and yh he stills makes fun of me at least once a week abt making a move on him so thats great ig

Bella

When I saw on middle school I had a crush on this guy who was my classmate in 7th grade I was so shy to talk to him because I had social anxiety around people I don't talk and 1 year later my enemy her name is Shaniya and I told her about who I like and literally she spent rumors about him and telling everyone she is such a gossip girl and me and my boyfriend Joseph are together and we are boyfriend and girlfriend and his mom doesn't want us to date each other 😭

sharklover

WHY DONT THEY HAVE A BLOG ON BEING GAY!!!!!

FortniteGirl

I have a crush on a girl who I’ve known since reception but I’m not really sure if it’s like a crush crush or like more admirational sort off. Help please

shark lover

my first crush was with this boy who i was freinds with for a long time but then he moved and i didnt see him again and that was when i new i had a crush on him!!!!!!!! then i liked another boy but i moved this time so i dont see him anymore ETHER! and finely i met this other boy who was really nice and funny and every one was friends with and i asked him out, but someone else came and interupted us so i never heard what he said back. we are friends again now and we NEVER talk about what happend and i have decided to become gay because boys are just too much to deal with. and this is the longest comment i have ever written so hi 2 u all!

BRITNUTTER

Hi so there's this boy that I think has a crush on me but we've known eachother since like 1st grade (primary school but we Home Educate) and I kinda like him but Idk if I should tell him that BC I don't want to not be friends with him he's like my bff so can someone plz help???

TSS

ARGH!!! SOMEONE PLZ HELP ME!! I think I have a crush on my best/oldest friend (he's a boy but I'll call him X in this text), but he's like a brother to me. My ex, who I also introduced to him (I shall call him Y), I think he still has a crush on me but I don't like him anymore. Also I'm the same TSS in the "Tell Us Your First Period Story" article, so you can read that too if you need more info lol. But I also think that X's lil bro (named Z) also has a crush on me. But the thing is, X and Z live in a different country, but Y lives within 20 mins from me 😭 I also think that some other of my friends like me, because I keep getting funny looks (the kind that people do when they like with u) from them, but idk why! I'm rlly tall, towering over everyone else, I'm a plus size girl, and im not that trendy. I don't know what's happening!! But also, can you have more than one crush?! I mean, I've got a crush on a fictional character from a TV show, but idk if I like X more than the TV character! Or if I want to ruin a 6 year friendship! Plz help 😭

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